Married for many years. Mixed family she has a couple of kids and they have a couple together. Strang, he’s 42 and has never been married before now. She wonders why, what’s the secret issue that he has done so well at hiding?
He doesn’t go to her, in bed, except to sleep. Good night, maybe but usually he waits in the livingroom watching tv until she is fast asleep.
She has been open with issues regarding finances, friendships and just about everything. Most of the time he says that he doesn’t want to hear about all that. So she does what she can to get things accomplished without his guidance.
He has a separate checking and saving account and has opened credit accounts without her knowledge. She is not “allowed” to open any credit accounts.
He gives her what he thinks she needs and tells her to pay the bills. He spends his money without ever conferring with her.
He does many favors for many people including women. Women that are “more his taste” He disappears for hours or when the phone rings he goes outside to take the call.
She’s not exactly the type of woman he desired for a “wife”, he was just in love with her hot body, amazing independence and a life perspective full of love, joy and life. All that has been sucked away and a shell is left behind.
He says he loves her each day and gives her a peck on the lips. Then when he gets home it’s the same except dinner should be made and ready to eat. The house should be clean too.
She used to work but stayed home with the children. Nurturing the babies as they grew, the youngest of two now turning one year old.
She can count the times they have been intimate on both hands since they became married.
Not even a word between the two of them unless it is about the kids, paying a bill or handling a favor for him.
So, What is it? How would you define this couple?