​We hold the key to our happiness, the power to choose to let go of the hold that painful memories or experiences have on us. Choose not to let who we are be determined by someone else’s actions or lack of action or even an opinion or dirty comment of someone who’s goal is to put and keep us down. Forgiveness may not be deserved but as God forgives us we forgive and are released of the control of of the cause of our pain. We don’t forget, we move on.